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28 learnings from 2025.
Hey fren, happy to see you again. How have you been? Enjoy.

There is no better place to write this than a plane. Not only because I took 40 planes this year, but also because it is that place in the world where we are outside the connectivity sphere. It is just you, your music and your head to think about something that’s been there for a while. In the effort to connect us faster than ever, planes isolate us — and sometimes is all we need to think with clarity.
2025 made my work become my life more than ever. Kept many hobbies, and spent time with friends, but I laser-focused on to growing Crecimiento. And we had a blast building the coolest (and biggest (and impactful (and fascinating))) web3 community in Latam. But I’m not hear to talk about it. Sat down to tell you how things are cooler now than they were before, or what I changed in those situations where this was not true.
Always with the same objective: we’re one genius away from saving the world. Hopefully this information gets to cool people, inspires them, and lets them build a greater future - in whatever way “greater” means to them.
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I am 28 and I feel I’m in the best moment I’ll ever be to take risks. Single, no kids, no debt and a lot of energy and resources to make shit happen. If you’re here too, think about it. Life won’t get easier in the next ten years.
Listen more - people deserve to be heard, but not necessarily to be understood. Look at them in the eyes. Be close and kind, we are loosing care for each other.
The better you seem to be doing, the less people will ask you how you feel. Don’t be afraid to ask for a hug when you need it.
Stick around people who make the uncomfortable questions. Science has come where it is because of people asking the right questions. Your closest friends will ask the tougher questions and that’s a love language.

We all hate routine until we lose it. Then, you crave it. Cherish going to your usual gym and greeting your mates.
Protect your digital identity the same way you protect your physical one. Would you be comfortable if tomorrow your digital self became your passport?
Quit porn and masturbate to fantasies. Your sexual life will improve massively. Your partners will thank you.
When out in event season, save energy for the night. Skip a side event if you need to take a nap to be powered for the evening. More deals are closed in a club than in a meeting.
You are not falling in love because Tik Tok is fucking your brain up. Excess of cheap dopamine in your daily life makes getting excited for an upcoming date harder. Your brain is no longer chemically surprised, and you’re not willing to give what it takes to commit to a relationship.
Family trees can also be trimmed for healthier branches to grow in the future.

If, on a daily basis, you’re short on time, gift experiences to your beloved ones. Spend quality time building anecdotes with those who miss you the most. Be aware of their emotions - sometimes a message can be day-changing.
Finding a purpose is a commonly suggested tip from frens who want to guide a career. A privileged take, to be fair. Got a better question for you: What’s the sound of the voice of your ambition? Who’s talking to your when you push yourself harder?
Toxic partners come with amazing sex. Still not worth it. Enjoy the sex while it lasts though.

There are so many people on the internet saying “the world belongs to [Insert random group of highly motivated white boys]” and the truth is that it belongs to a few powerful families and we’re all dancing around pretending we have an influence on macro outcomes. Forget about it and build.
Extremists don’t want to change their opinion, don’t waste time arguing with them and fuck off quickly.
Argentina is a country where friendship is among the top priorities. You see different groups of friends everyday. Plans happening all the time. You find excuses to hang together all the time - mates, asados, una coquita, anything. You open your house to friends. You mix groups. For some, a loss of focus; for others, an energy charge.
Play the long game when working on business development. Don’t be opportunistic, build human relationships and better deals will come along.

Build a yearly tradition with your oldest friends. Life will get you apart and spending time together will be harder. Make everybody commit to a few days together a year. Party and laugh, get high and talk freely. Conversations on day 3 will be priceless.
Tell your male friends you love them. Our toxic masculinity makes us miss on saying what we feel to our friends. Once you open, everybody will follow - after calling you a few slurs.
Investigate Creatine and consider taking it if you’re in a moment of your life with a lot of work commitment + training demands. You will feel better. [Not a professional so DYOR]
Facts don’t matter anymore. Do what it takes to become the best storyteller.

If you keep carrying the same bricks you’ll keep building the same house. Do whatever you have to do with this info.
Learn how to recharge your energy. Now I know I need to be alone some time to be at my best. Training, playing playstation, or watching history videos. In silence. Mate y galletitas.
You never know where your biggest supporter will be. Be kind to people by default. Darwin was the greatest international promoter of Asados after having one with Juan Manuel de Rosa.
Don’t waste time talking shit about people. Makes you boring, stupid and tiring. Don’t bring anyone into the conversation unless you’re willing to speak highly about him/her.
Your body can limit attraction chemically by, supposedly, doing hormone matching and determining if your future offspring will have the right gene-matching [hey, we’re animals]. This year I thought I had met someone that could be a very significant person in my life - an absolute 10. However, I just did not feel it with her. Rationally, all in. Emotionally/Physically, zero. Weirdest feeling ever.

Every partner that you have, regardless of it being a short story or something more meaningful, deserved equal respect and love. It’s easy not to be a cunt when you’re fucking around. Try not to be.
We perceive ourselves younger than we are. Friends getting married, having children and building homes. Being before-30 is a moving moment to be alive. We all moved at the same speed for the first 25 years, and now life decisions, ambition and dreams make us take on different roads. None is right and we are all improvising.

There we go. It all came out. What an insane year has gone by. More than thankful to all the friends who were part of it, the family, the randoms and the randoms who became friends.
2026 will be even more challenging and I will be writing some predictions for it too. I realized this exercise is only past-looking and fun is always ahead.
Love y’all. Vamo loco.
